k guys ....1st of all in dis reply wat u thnk u ll do in actually life...no hard feelin any1.. jus doin dis ...as no1 started sum topic on such thngs.. k how would u feel wen u were askd by : a. ur bst fren b. sum person kinda not tht gud lukin.... for here tak it as fat.. c. sum1 geek.. i guess dis vill b enf ....jus keep replyin ...n trust me it ll b gud to c other ppls reply ....so pls reply..its not neceesary u need to answer all of them ..
k mine confession ...i would i feel ....lets tak de 1st one...i would kinda feel very gud...but i may not accept ....coz i will not hav a bst fren to whom i ll tell abt my gf..so i guess dis option will b one of the toughes decision ... k nxt ..by sum1 not lukin tht gud...k 1st of all i myself aiint tht gud lukin ....n kinda plumy sum say..but i say me fat...so well i ll c abt dis... 3rd ...wit sum geeky person ..well depends on nature...if pretty gud...then ofcourse will go for it...n i def dun lyk hurtin others feelin so guess my part is over...now whoeva is readin dis pls reply on wat u ll thnk ...
a guy wid feelingz (no offence) *gapes in wonder* (cuz guyz rnt USUALLY Very good at talkin dere feelinz da opposite of gals, HEEHEE)
ok truth: lookz DNT matter. specially as we not-so-good-lookers cant b choosy. i dunno bt others, bt wen lookin 4 serious stuff, we (me n ma frndz) actually c da character first n den cum d lookz. beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. n none of us r ugly, cuz none of us r perfect. each one of us, have sumthin the other person has nt. no matter hw seemingly flawless a person appearz, they secretly lack sumthin, n they live in gr8 fear of that secret being found out n then looked down upon in our world, as they r the "Iconz" *note: all dis is ISM stuff*
I noe im chubby n fatness is greatly snobbed at, nt only in ISM, bt worldwide. The world seems 2 appreciate those stick thin ppl who wont need an xray 2 see any broken bones. Well, 2 all de gurls out there hu have lost their confidence in themselves n self esteen, i sat this: Hold ur head n walk on. How long will u hang it?? U gt it, so u gt it. God gifted it 2 u, n u should be happy ur nt deprived of anythin lyke those poor soles hu hog the lime light temporarily.
remember: thin is OUT. Curvyz IN.
sry 4 changin da topic!
jst voicin wat i feel. n once i start i can go on n on n on n on n on.........
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wow divz that was actually really inspiring.... *smiles*
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Well, Divya, that's some really (unexpected) philosophical stuff. Anyway, she's right -- you shouldn't care about your looks. It's God-given. But that way, if you say, "bleh, my physique, my looks, my style, myself, all God-given, then why bother improving it?" Tricky question, aye? And if you say "yes" to that question, that means you should care about your looks. Damn it, there's always exceptions to everything (including crazy French grammar).
welll u guys took my topic in total diff way..divya i neva talked abt luks....in my ques wat if our bst fen is one of the most prettiest or most handsom person ?...its was neva meant on luks....it s lyk how would u guys feel?...i dunno frm where luks sunddenly came...it was jus a second option ..n divya u jus took tht n kept on writin ...
nice to read tat stuff frm u divya. umran, i am happy u took the lead for such topics. but well, i guess no more, its an "ISM" forum. divya, vireena, shalaka, and my mackd, let me tell u writing things like this is really gud and having such feelings abt thw whole thing is very gud. but u cannot deny this, tat in practical life, things like this just do not work. i dont want to say that u r wrong, but for 97%, luks r the primary importance. facial luks especially. if after experience, at any point of time in ur life, u come over the feeling of liking gud luking ppl, it is surely an achievement. but at this age of fascinations, its fine. and u shud not do anythin abt it, coz its very natural, just keep it goin!!
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heres wat i think...best friend??..i wud need anoder best dan..k kiddin..i think best friends are for keeps coz dare is sum sort of comfort level u share wid bst friends...da 2nd option is much easier...luks certainly dont matter..divya already killed it on dat...it certainly duznt matter..even if she duznt luk gud..for me she certainly dusstand da rigt to like sum1 its upto dem..and it depends wat kind of situation i am in..if da person is a gud friend and is not gud luking i wud definately be okay with it...and for the third option..its not necessary a geek is da sort of a person u see on da tv show beauty and geek..so cheers..i kno so many nerds or rather gud at studies or sumthing who luk amazing but r kinda outcatstes by us coz dey r "nerds"
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..k kiddin..i think best friends are for keeps coz dare is sum sort of comfort level u share wid bst friends...da 2nd option is much easier...luks certainly dont matter..divya already killed it on dat...it certainly duznt matter..even if she duznt luk gud..for me she certainly dusstand da rigt to like sum1 its upto dem..and it depends wat kind of situation i am in..if da person is a gud friend and is not gud luking i wud definately be okay with it...and for the third option..its not necessary a geek is da sort of a person u see on da tv show beauty and geek..so cheers..i kno so many nerds or rather gud at studies or sumthing who luk amazing but r kinda outcatstes by us coz dey r "nerds"
